TAKE THE TEST
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Answer honestly, even if you don’t like the answer.
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I find it hard to spend time in my own company
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I feel loved when other people praise me
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I feel people judge me unfairly
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I find it hard to forgive myself
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I worry about what I look like
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In order to relax, I feel that I must double check things
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I like to solve problems on my own rather than ask for help
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I pick fights when I get hurt
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When I meet new people, I feel that they will like me
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I feel there are things I have done that even God would find difficult to forgive
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I feel disappointed in the way my life has turned out
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I avoid God because I think he'll be unhappy with me
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Others say I dominate conversations
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When I do something wrong I punish myself
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I sense God speaking to me personally when I pray or read the Bible
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I feel good enough with who I am
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I look after my own well-being
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I am happy with my life
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I feel that if my friends really knew about me they would judge me
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I feel bitter about the difficulties I've had to face in my life
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I experience anxiety
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I find giving God control in my life scary
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I criticise people
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I like who I am
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I feel close to Jesus
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I find it easy to make close friends
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I work harder on other people's needs and problems than I do on my own
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I feel I have to try hard to be good enough for God
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When I remember some of my childhood history I feel shame
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I get easily offended by people
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I worry about what people think about me
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I find it difficult to be vulnerable with God
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I use food (or other substances) as a comfort
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I feel I want to give up on God
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I experience God's love
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I find it easy being vulnerable with close friends
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I feel that God has a plan and a purpose for my life
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I change my opinions or plans in order to please others
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When I think about some of my adult history I feel shame
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I find it very difficult to forgive people when they hurt me
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I feel anxious that I haven't done enough to please God
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Anxiety affects my sleep
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I give in to habits that I find difficult to control
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I feel God has let me down
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I harshly criticise myself
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I feel the Holy Spirit close to me
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I feel that I am a person of value
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In conversation I worry that I have said something stupid
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When I remember some of my teenage history I feel shame
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I worry that God might be angry with me
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I find it hard to rest
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I need to be in control of planning things for others
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I feel close to God the Father
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I find it easy to describe how I feel emotionally
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I feel that God is proud of me
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I think about times when people have offended me or hurt me
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I find it hard to accept myself because of things I have done
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When I think about God I feel angry or resentful
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I feel that God likes me
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I feel God loves me no matter what
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I feel anxious in social settings
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